Mark Rhodes - How to Talk with Anyone. Confident communication in any situation. Reviews on the book "How to Talk with Anyone. Confident Communication" Mark Rhodes. The essence of communication is understanding.
I must admit, I was a little surprised and puzzled when Mark suggested that I write a preface to his book. You see, I am a specialist in makeup, cosmetics, body care and style. So I did not quite understand why Mark asked me to write a preface for such a book. But then, when I started reading, everything became clear!
As a make-up artist, beautician and stylist, I was fortunate enough to work with some of the most beautiful and successful men and women in the world. With those who exude confidence, wherever they are - on the red carpet or on the stage in front of thousands of spectators!
On the other hand, I starred in British television image shows for many years, where I gave advice and turned ordinary Britons from gray mice into chic beauties and beauties. Demand for such shows is not weakening ... People want to get the most out of what they have. And this does not have to cost a lot of money, take a lot of time and require a lot of effort. In fact, it’s not only the rich and famous that is given to look and feel like a star ... It is an achievable goal that fits into the schedule and budget of any person!
The main thing you need is not Angelina Jolie's beautiful puffy lips and not Hugh Jackman's sculpted muscles, but confidence! Having revealed and emphasized your main advantages, you will embark on the path to gaining self-confidence!
In the book " How to talk with anyone"There are simple step-by-step instructions and ideas on how to increase self-confidence in order to find an approach to any person in any situation. From resolving delicate problem situations at work to breaking an excruciatingly awkward silence in the elevator ... This easy-to-understand book will help you reconsider your attitude to situations that seem difficult for you, both socially and personally.
I think she will be an excellent travel companion: scrolling through it, you can easily find what you are currently interested in, and in addition, it sets out available methods to increase self-confidence in a variety of tricky cases.
This book helps the reader expand his comfort zone, just as red lipstick could help any woman, and everyday skin care, if not for the good old Fear Factor, could help any man: “I can’t say it for anything!”, “I will never be able to wear this ...”
Mark's fresh approach to real everyday situations will instantly reflect on your interaction with friends, relatives and completely strangers. Even I, with my many years of experience in public speaking and conducting various events, found some invaluable advice from him.
Like Mark’s full-house seminars, this entire book is riddled with his sense of humor and enthusiasm, and it provides you with the opportunity to deal with a variety of situations, regardless of your experience.
Enjoy reading!
Armand Beasley
international expert in the field of cosmetology and style,
makeup artist of world stars.
Mark Rhodes
How to talk with anyone. Confident communication in any situation
Mark rhodes
HOW TO TALK TO ABSOLUTELY ANYONE
Confident Communication in Every Situation
Courtesy of John Wiley & Sons, Inc. and literary agency Alexander Korzhenevski
Legal support for the publisher is provided by the Vegas-Lex Law Firm.
© Mark Rhodes 2013
© Translation into Russian, publication in Russian, design. LLC Mann, Ivanov and Ferber, 2015
This book is well complemented by:
Paul McGee
Mark Goulston
Kerry Patterson, Joseph Granny and Ron Macmillan
They say everyone needs a mentor. But I always thought: yes, to everyone except me! I thought that I didn’t need a mentor. I have enough other sources: books, video discs, my own thoughts - I am able to edify myself!
But just recently, I realized why I didn’t need a mentor: because I already have one!
All this time I had a mentor who supported me when doubts prevailed, and encouraged me when it seemed to me that something would not work.
My mentor even helped those who believed in me when I felt tight, and regularly reminded me of all my achievements.
In addition to the mentor, I have two more inspirers, encouraging me to do more and improve.
Therefore, I lovingly dedicate this book to my mentor and wife Jackie Rhodes and, of course, to my two masterminds - our children Holly and James.
Foreword
I must admit, I was a little surprised and puzzled when Mark suggested that I write a preface to his book. You see, I am a specialist in makeup, cosmetics, body care and style. So I did not quite understand why Mark asked me to write a preface for such a book. But then, when I started reading, everything became clear!
As a makeup artist, cosmetologist and stylist, I was fortunate enough to work with some of the most beautiful and successful men and women in the world. With those who exude confidence, wherever they are - on the red carpet or on the stage in front of thousands of spectators!
On the other hand, I starred in British television image shows for many years, where I gave advice and turned ordinary Britons from gray mice into chic beauties and beauties. Demand for such shows is not weakening ... People want to get the most out of what they have. And this does not have to cost a lot of money, take a lot of time and require a lot of effort. Actually gorgeous look and feel like a star given not only rich and famous ... This is an achievable goal that fits into the schedule and budget of any person!
The main thing you need is not Angelina Jolie's beautiful puffy lips and not Hugh Jackman's sculpted muscles, but confidence! Having revealed and emphasized your main advantages, you will embark on the path to gaining self-confidence!
The book “How to Talk with Anyone” has simple step-by-step instructions and ideas on how to increase self-confidence in order to find an approach to any person in any situation. From resolving delicate problem situations at work to breaking an excruciatingly awkward silence in the elevator ... This easy-to-understand book will help you reconsider your attitude to situations that seem difficult for you, both socially and personally.
I think she will be an excellent travel companion: scrolling through it, you can easily find what you are currently interested in, and in addition, it sets out available methods to increase self-confidence in a variety of tricky cases.
This book helps the reader expand his comfort zone, just as red lipstick could help any woman, and everyday skin care, if not for the good old Fear Factor, could help any man: “I can’t say it for anything!”, “I will never be able to wear this ...”
Mark's fresh approach to real everyday situations will instantly reflect on your interaction with friends, relatives and completely strangers. Even I, with my many years of experience in public speaking and conducting various events, found some invaluable advice from him.
Before the parental leave, I worked on several jobs where I needed to communicate with clients and visitors, and I did great. I have never been a talker, but to say something smart and to the point is my prerogative.
After being on the decree for 3 years, I forgot how to talk with people, not in the literal sense, I can still speak, but figuratively - I find it difficult to communicate with strangers, offer them my products, I have to make an effort to then recommend or advise or just chat.
Soon I will go to work, and I thought about this issue, it seems nothing wrong, but life can be complicated quite seriously.
The answer to all my questions was Mark Rhodes's book How to Talk with Anyone: Confident Communication in Any Situation. It describes in detail our feelings and fears, why we cannot communicate with people freely and comfortably, how and why they appear and how to overcome it.
Most often, fear drives us, but fear is not reality. This is an emotional reaction that we evoke in ourselves under certain circumstances. It can arise in response to something that is actually happening or when we think about something that can only happen. And, indeed, how many times do we lose in our heads an unpleasant conversation that should take place, and each time we get worse and worse, we experience moral suffering, although nothing bad has happened and it probably won't happen.
We are afraid that we will be rejected and driven away, but with adults this rarely happens - almost never. We are our own masters, we make decisions ourselves and act ourselves. If someone does not agree with us or disapproves of our actions, this does not mean that we are wrong. What we do is right for us.
The book offers real advice and ways to overcome our fear, with the help of exercises that can be done here and now, overcoming all negative emotions.
The second part contains a description of the four stages of communicative interaction, through which communication will always be successful and enjoyable.
Then comes the training, when and how to start a conversation so that he does not become a burden. Teaches you to analyze the situation and appearance, the relevance and inappropriateness of a conversation, how to properly draw attention. People are convinced that talking to people is fun, valuable, and beneficial for everyone. For them it’s like a game, an adventure: it’s interesting to see what comes of it. You need to develop your own belief system that serves your purpose.
Of course, I do not quite agree with the exercise, when you need to go into the room, stand in the middle and put your hands on your hips, thereby showing that you are ready for communication - the Russian person will take this position differently.
The next stage is to interest a person. You should always try to draw topics for conversation from the words of the interlocutor and the information that he gives you; you need to ask him about it, express opinions or comments on this matter. You can begin to change the subject and lead the conversation in the direction you want, only when mutual understanding has already arisen
Counting on a good result, you significantly increase your chances of achieving such a result or that a person makes the decision you need. When you count on a good result, your gestures, facial expressions, tone and speech change. This, in turn, is reflected in how the person perceives your words, and he is much more inclined to become interested and follow you.
A separate chapter considers language techniques: tone, pauses, facial expressions and gestures, intonations - all that will help us make our conversation interesting, useful and unforgettable.
Despite the fact that there are no pictures in the book, it is easy and simple to read, the sentences are clear, not overloaded with professional terms.
After reading, I learned:
1) Do not be afraid to talk with strangers on any topic and I began to succeed.
2) Do not worry about the upcoming conversation and do not scroll through the negative consequences in your head.
3) I stopped worrying about stupid things, and if I start, I pull myself off with words - why do you come up with this for yourself, stop making nasty things!
4) Imagine that all conversations and conversations are going well, I charge myself with a positive attitude and positive.
I recommend for reading to those who want to work or already work in the field of trade, a lot of useful information for public people who are preparing to conduct and conduct seminars, lectures, and training.
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DescriptionIf at least once in your life you missed the opportunity to use personal contact with people important to you, listen to the advice of Mark Rhodes. It will help you figure out what exactly causes you to communicate in various situations, explains how to make your voice work for you and how to deal with pitfalls that are always found when talking face to face. You can change your attitude to communication and look at it as a pleasant process that can change your life for the better. Do you open up in the company of other people and start a conversation, or do you close yourself and cannot squeeze out anything other than a few short phrases?
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Feeling nervous and insecure when interacting with other people is normal, but it’s important not to let fears stop you. Every day you come across strangers and those you know, but who you don’t communicate with. Each conversation could be the beginning of something new - a new career, business idea or friendships. Refusal to communicate means the rejection of these opportunities.
This book will help you change your attitude towards communication: you will look at it as a pleasant process that can change your life for the better. After reading, you will learn:
fight fear of hearing failure;
Feel confident when interacting with strangers;
to cope with difficult situations;
make new friends;
to achieve results in negotiations.
This book is for everyone who wants to master the skills of effective communication and feel confident in any situation.
Published in Russian for the first time.
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Title: How to talk with anyone. Confident communication in any situation
About the book “How to Talk with Anyone. Confident communication in any situation ”Mark Rhodes
Being a good conversationalist is a real art. And if communication with ordinary people can easily be brought to the ideal, then communication with potential customers, partners needs to be learned. Every person needs his own, special approach in order to interest him, catch one wave, and become a pleasant conversationalist for him.
The book “How to talk with anyone. Confident communication in any situation ”is interesting in all respects. You can learn how to properly communicate with customers and business partners, how to create competent presentations, present your products. The book will be useful to everyone who is engaged in business, who cares about the development of their company in all aspects, for whom each client is important.
When communicating, you need to not only interest the interlocutor, but also show him that you are confident in your abilities, in what you represent. It is fears that prevent you from making new acquaintances and improving your business. It is because of fear that people often refuse to communicate, which could open new horizons, acquaintances, opportunities for them.
The book “How to talk with anyone. Confident communication in any situation ”is necessary for everyone who is experiencing certain problems with communication. Of course, many are worried before an important meeting or meeting, but it’s important not to show it, it is important to overcome excitement, fears, experiences.
Many are afraid to hear a refusal, for them it is like a loss, as an indicator of insolvency, the inability to do something good that people like. Failures should also be treated in a special way, so that they do not bring frustration, but rather make them move on and set new goals. This is what Mark Rhodes will teach in his book.
Talking with strangers is quite difficult and not everyone decides to take this step, but if communicating with unknown people is part of your work. Moreover, such communication should be simple and enjoyable, and excitement does not allow this to be achieved. This book will help to cope with this problem.
When difficult situations happen, you need to respond quickly, but if you do not know how to communicate, you will not be able to emerge victorious. Mark Rhodes will help to adequately respond to difficult situations, while maintaining calm, which helps to conduct a normal conversation.
The book “How to talk with anyone. Confident communication in any situation ”is necessary for everyone who wants to learn not only to be a good conversationalist, but also to make promising contacts, make new friends. For entrepreneurs, the book is useful in that you will find answers to a host of questions on how to negotiate, make presentations, and get out of difficult situations in a worthy way. Mark Rhodes writes very easily and fascinatingly about fairly simple things that we may have simply forgotten, but they will make life much easier for us, make it more intense and beautiful.
Published in Russian for the first time.
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If you successfully started a conversation (stage 1) and went on to arouse curiosity and interest (stage 2), then you made close contact with the interlocutor, making him feel that he was understood (stage 3), then the action (stage 4), as a rule, naturally follows all the previous. If not, you just need to ask.
“Talking to people is fun; it’s a game, an adventure: it’s interesting to see what comes of it. ”
“And what is the circle of your occupations?”, You give a person the opportunity not only to talk about his work or career, but also to touch on what he is doing besides work.
“Either everything will go just brilliantly, or an amazing story will happen, and then I will tell everyone how I spoke to the person and got a very strange answer.”
Did someone push you through the crowd and push you? How did you feel? It might seem to you that they looked at you like an empty place or tried to scare you, to demonstrate your superiority. The next time this happens, with a friendly curiosity, ask the person who pushed you: “Excuse me, am I on your way?” Even if you are ignored, you will have the feeling that you have dealt with the situation.
You live now, not at some point in the future. And if so, start today to do more of what you want to do, and worry less about what others might think. Moreover, they, quite possibly, do not think about you.
Some strive for diversity in work or career. They like that when they come to work in the morning, they don’t know what the day is preparing for them. Such people need a good reaction, they must quickly think, offer ideas and solutions in a short time and respond instantly to everything that happens. Others need constancy in their work. Coming to work, they should have an idea of \u200b\u200bwhat they will do and when; they don’t need any shocks and surprises.
If a person says: “In my opinion, this can work,” you can answer him: “Well, if it looks good, then you will be delighted when you see firsthand.” That is, you continue the conversation in visual mode.
In order to actively participate in the conversation and be able to respond to the interlocutor’s words with relevant questions and comments, imagine yourself in the situation in which he is or who describes you. So you will experience at least a small fraction of what he experienced, and you can grasp the very essence, which will allow you to react correctly - so that the interlocutor wants to tell you even more.
Too worrying about what you might think about, you risk missing out on a real opportunity to achieve something.
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