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A girl is an emotional being. If you give her strong emotions, surprise, inspire her - she begins to fall in love with you.

After all, as a rule, she really lacks such sensations in her life. Consider what you can come up with in order to refresh the relationship again, or give them a sharp start. How can she be surprised in 6 different life situations.

How to surprise a girl without money?

Money plays an important role in the life of mankind, without them you can’t feed your family or even buy a movie ticket. But if a girl needs only money, then she is clearly not for us. The first thing you can surprise is a verse that describes her individual traits, as well as emphasizing her femininity, tenderness. It is not necessary to compose verses yourself, and you won’t be able to make a masterpiece the first time. It is better to review ready-made verses, choose some of the best, and based on them do something of your own, proprietary, understandable only to you and the girl.

If a lady loves extreme sports, leads an active lifestyle and is more practical than sentimental, then it’s better to take care, show that you need her, try to solve her problems and show that you can always rely on you. But here you also don’t need to go too far, communicate and write monologues without an answer. No need to be imposed, otherwise the girl will cease to appreciate you. You need to let her feel that you can not write, do not call, live your life.

This is the main rule that many violate. The more you pay attention to a girl (especially unfamiliar) - the less she will appreciate you. Often girls go to others who make a very strong impression, but also very rarely write, as if forcing themselves to run after a guy. Excessive attention and endless SMS, ten pieces per day, will only have the opposite effect.

Here you can come up with the wish of a good day on the pavement, pasted compliments, understandable only to you, in the entrance, on the poles on the route that she walks daily. You can invite to your home and cook yourself a romantic dinner (it can even be a simple scrambled eggs). Then compose a melody, a song together.

After dinner, look for the most beautiful places in the city, try to remember her requests, and suddenly realize them. The first to take a step towards reconciliation after a quarrel. Always valid, banal bouquets of flowers have not been canceled. But the songs under the window are the last century, and not everyone has a voice. This can be replaced by a hired orchestra or music column with a girl’s favorite song.

How to surprise a girl in   VK?

The same principle works in VK - the main thing is not to overdo it, keep your distance. It seems to be writing first, making surprises, but also showing that you also have your own life, worries, work, etc. Do not always make concessions, and sometimes demand something in return, if attempts to surprise are accompanied only by criticism and the wish for even better. If you go on occasion, it will only show the girl that you can be manipulated under the pretext of her bad mood. And who will console you when you are in no mood?

You can surprise at VK with a drawing of characters or graffiti made on the wall, writing recognition in foreign languages. You and the girl can start creating your own language that both of you can understand, and then use this language, for example, in the stuck messages on the posts and the girl’s travel route, on the porch.

Make an expensive virtual gift for no reason. Find out what her favorite single-digit number and give her the same number of gifts, write as many messages on her wall or compose as many poems. Circle this number on the calendar and write down what happened during the month, then give her this message for the new year or birthday.

Send an animation or a picture on which you can make your signature with a hint of care. You can make an inscription regarding her secrets, but in such a way that only she understands the secret meaning. You can order a large number of likes for a photo and a record of a girl in VK, using a special service vktarget.

How to surprise a girl in the distance?

The best way to surprise a girl from a distance is to cut it. That is, suddenly come. Then come a gift by mail or courier. You can also order a bouquet online. You can talk to her on the phone to calculate her location, and after 10-20 minutes there she will suddenly meet.

If the girl is romantic - you can take balloons or flowers with you, if you practice - eat food and, if possible, cook everything yourself, massage the girl, pre-booked a hotel room (so as not to inconvenience anyone). Care should be taken in advance about the schedule of routes, place of residence, and so on, so as not to create discomfort for the girl, her cohabitants, and himself.

How to surprise a girl in bed?

Initially, one should learn preferences - what she likes best, and build an intimate life on this foundation. Trying to surprise her with dedication in terms of what she likes. Self-giving does not mean becoming a slave. Perhaps she will like to be a slave and dedication in this regard - to do everything as she likes. For example, punish her properly. If the girl is for you, she will definitely appreciate it and try to thank, reciprocate.

You can indirectly ask how it relates to sex toys, watch a movie together for adults, for a change, make love in new places - in the elevator, the roof of an abandoned house, on a table in the kitchen. Explore more new information on the Internet, and gradually bring it to life, be interested in what you like most. Stretch the foreplay for as long as possible, try an erotic massage. If the relationship is already very many years old - you can try to radically change something.

How to surprise a girl on February 14 (Valentine's Day)?

In addition to the banal heart, pillows, bears, for Valentine's Day, there are many other gifts. For example, for a romantic nature, recognition in the snow with rose petals may be appropriate. Paints on asphalt may soon become a commonplace way: a girl may not see it, and you will have to write an SMS “look out the window”. Not to mention that the inscription is too noticeable and not intimate.

There is a more interesting way - to stick a piece of paper on the back of the window on which you can write not only a confession, but also something intimate. But here are the drawbacks - if a girl lives high - it will be problematic, you will have to use a technique or a distracting maneuver to open a window, stick a message from her room on the window, and close the curtains. In addition, you can surprise with the following:

  • Scatter balloons all over the house. In each of them you can put a part of the puzzle (you can also earrings / rings / pendants, as pleasant comforting prizes - rewards for trying), having collected all the components of which, you will get something romantic and touching.
  • Prepare a relaxing bath
  • Make her favorite fairy tale real, embellish her a little and change into the main character;
  • A stencil is made from the portrait of the beloved, with hearts around the face, but so that after painting, the silhouette and facial features are recognizable. With this stencil, you can paint over trees, poles located along the street from home to work;
  • A small long-awaited cat or dog, decorated with a ribbon;
  • A portrait made in pencil by a professional artist. We make out in a beautiful frame, and can be presented together with a Valentine;
  • Crystal heart with engraved name.

How to surprise a girl on her birthday?

On this special day, you need to try very hard, because not only is this the most important day in her life, so will her friends, relatives and colleagues who will give gifts. Here it is best to show a trick - communicate personally with a friend or parents, and find out what the girl likes the most, or agree on who will give what.

You need to hide various surprises along the way, decorate the road with hearts that will each time remind you of what gift she was given, you can draw a portrait near the window or ask the artist to sketch an approximate but recognizable silhouette of a girl overnight. Decorate the room with ribbons with balls, you can also decorate the courtyard and porch, stick a serpentine around the doors (here you can also use the local children for a fee, to save time)

As for the balls - they can be tied to a long stick lying on the ground, and make the length so that they hang opposite the window. You can attach congratulations and affectionate words to the balls.

You can order the author’s cake, ride horses or in a chic medieval cart to the restaurant, order musicians and violinists. To arrange a boat rental, you can make some kind of floating stand, for a table of chairs, decorated with candles and champagne, or on the roof of the house at sunset.

If a girl wants to spend this day with her family, she should take on the organization of the holiday. Consult with loved ones about the venue and preferences of the girl. If she is keen on extreme sports, you can go karting, fly a balloon, play paintball. It should be borne in mind that clothing should be warned in advance, because no one goes to a go-kart dress, as well as a restaurant in sportswear.

The housewife will be surprised by the collected circle of all her close friends, warm wishes, and if she loves entertainment, then you can arrange original unobtrusive contests. It is also important to remember that some girls do not like when they pay too much attention, they want a fairy tale, but each one has its own.

You can ask in the form of a joke or play a game where you need to indicate your perfect birthday or a fairy tale that will never become a reality. And try to maximally translate everything written, not excluding comic forms and words.

The best way to surprise a girl is to study her preferences well and try to predict her wishes. Over the years, it’s more difficult to surprise a person, because you know him well and get used to it, so it’s difficult to do it. But the task is also simplified, because after the first 5 attempts to make the rest easier and easier. To develop and improve, to combine their methods each time is pleasant not only for themselves, but also for the girl. Good luck!

The main mistake of many guys when meeting a girl is that they try to take a phone number and dissolve quickly. That is, they are not comfortable next to a woman, and they + believe that the most important thing is to get a number faster. (although meeting people on the Internet is just what you need. But I'm generally a proponent of only live dating). But this is not at all true.

For a live meeting, you must first call and at least hear her voice. She will be surprised if - You ask her this number as soon as possible. You write the first message:

"Hi"..

Then the second:

  “You are a very unusual girl ....”

(You need to intrigue her). She will probably ask what is she unusual. You write to her for example:

“You have very unusual eyes.”

and in the next message you write:
  "Especially right))))"

Or write:

“” You have one very unusual trait that i do not like   guys, but I like her .... ".

guaranteed to start asking - what the hell. Then you literally in the fourth message write:

  "Write your phone, I want to live with you, chat for a couple of minutes, I'm only for live communication."

In general, the task is to pull it out as quickly as possible. In this way you will be different from the rest and thereby surprise the girl.

Let me tell you how to surprise a girl with words. Here are a few template phrases that you can apply when meeting and they will work.

You are a very unusual girl.

Yours is very unusual (Ears, eyes, lips, nose)

There are several types (Ears, eyes ...) - aristocratic, peasant ... .. She will ask what she has.

  • You have a kind and positive nose
  • You have a very kind face
  • You look like my first love

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  When she says there is a guy, you say: "I also have a boyfriend…"

Take and put her hand on your chest and say that now we will remember your name. Look in my videos, I do this in almost everyone, and my students from the trainings do that too.

Well, until you have enough templates from you, the rest are secret))).

I told you a little how to surprise a girl in vkontakte or on a dating site.

But watch the video how I do it when meeting live:

As for how to surprise a girl from a distance, it is certainly much more difficult. Mono apply some kind of banal-romantic way - like - to give flowers. To order a large bouquet and to make it delivery in another city, for example. Fortunately, there are now services that can be easily found on the Internet - when the company arranges romantic dates or actions. So it is searched on the Internet - you write in the search - "Actions for the beloved." They have a large arsenal of all sorts of pleasant and amazing ways, and you just have to choose.

That’s probably all. Naturally, the format of this article does not allow you to tell you everything that I would like, but you can always find more detailed information in my videos or in the training recording.

All girls like it when a young man shows signs of attention. Flowers and sweets are nice presents, but they are too familiar. In order to surprise your other half, you should be more original. There are many reasons for this. You can do something nice for your girlfriend on her birthday, on March 8, on Valentine's Day. Even if a young man does not have money, then this is not an obstacle in order to cause amazement of his beloved woman.

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      Gift without money

    Every woman deserves that her lover always try to please her. There are various ideas, like, without having large funds.

    Flowers for a girl

      Words about feelings

    Walking through a beautiful park, you can just stop, take her hand and just say about your tender feelings, about how beautiful and unique she is. Beloved will be very pleased by such an unexpected manifestation of feelings. You can end this recognition with a passionate kiss that will turn her head. A surprised girl will remember this for a long time.

    Another way to help express what is difficult to describe in words is to write a love letter. Real handwritten letters have not lost their relevance. If a young man uses perfume, then it is worth sprinkling a sheet of paper on which the message is written. Such an envelope can be sent by mail or hand in person at a meeting.

    Diversity in Intimate Life

      Relaxation day

    As a surprise, you can plan the whole day so that it is as comfortable as possible for your sweetheart. In the morning, bring coffee to bed, prepare breakfast, do all the work at home, prepare her a bath with soap bubbles and offer to make a massage. Beloved will surely appreciate such attention, especially after a hard working week.

    What to write to a girl so that she smiles

      Song on the radio

    In this case, it is necessary to take into account the characteristics of the girl's character. If she loves noisy parties, to be in the spotlight, then you can make such a surprise. If she is modest and does not like close attention in her person, then it is better to abandon this venture.

      Music collection

    If a girl likes to listen to music in a player or phone, then for her a collection of her favorite songs will be an excellent gift. You can record those compositions that are somehow connected with her young man, remind of something. In order to make the gift even more romantic, it is worth recording a personal appeal from yourself.

      Surprise on the Internet

    Each girl spends a lot of time on the Internet. The most frequently visited pages are social networks. This can be used in order to pleasantly surprise your sweetheart. For example, buy a place for advertising and place nice words and her photo there. In correspondence, you can write beautiful words about love or a picture that would tell about the feelings of a young man. A love message is also easy to leave in the comments or on the wall of the page of your girlfriend.

    Another option is to create a website by filling it with photos of a girl and writing a beautiful text about her. This can be done on your own or resorted to the help of professionals who will not only do everything technically correct, but also make out in an original way.

      On distance

    Many guys mistakenly think that surprise your beloved girl is possible only in person, but not at a distance. It’s not so difficult to make a girl smile, because you can use the services of a courier service and deliver a huge bouquet or a mysterious gift to her place of work or home.

    An even greater effect will be made by the meeting, in which the guy arrives, finds his beloved in the park or store and writes a message with the text: “Turn around! I want to kiss you! ". The girl certainly does not expect such a surprise.

      At the meeting

    To please a girl at a meeting is not difficult at all. To do this, you can come with a large bouquet of roses, a soft toy, perfumes, cosmetics or a souvenir. In order to hit a girl on a first date, you can come to her meeting in a limousine. Usually in such cars there is always champagne or wine, glasses, sweets. All this will help to relieve a little tension after such an unexpected meeting.

    If the relationship between lovers began recently, it is worth inviting a woman to an expensive restaurant. The main thing is to find out before that about her taste preferences, so as not to be mistaken with the choice of cuisine.

      In the bed

    If a guy with a girl not so long ago began a joint sex life, then you should not try to invent something. At this stage of the relationship, the main thing is the young man’s desire to show that he is ready to give everything in order to please his beloved. Slow down the pace in those poses that are especially pleasant for the partner.

    If a couple has been together for more than a year, and sexual desire is no longer the same as before, then in this case it is worth deciding to experiment in sex. It is necessary to read the relevant literature, learn more about the erogenous zones of women. You can take a chance and make love in an unusual place for both partners. Another option is to purchase items from a sex shop: handcuffs, sexy underwear, “toys” for adults. It would be nice to master the art of erotic massage.

      Nice gift

    To surprise a beloved woman with a gift, you should give her what she had long dreamed of. To create intrigue, regardless of the size of the gift itself, it is better to pack it in a large box and beautiful wrapping paper.

    You should not make romantic gifts too often, as over time it may begin to be perceived as something ordinary.

      On the first date

    The fate of further relations largely depends on how the first date goes. It is worth preparing thoroughly for the first meeting. To do this, you can ask the girl’s close friends about what she prefers in food, drinks, where she likes to relax. One may ask how she relates to romance, what kind of flowers she loves. A page on a social network usually has information about your favorite books and films, music, hobbies, outlooks on life.

      At home

    If the lovers began to live together, then this is not a reason to relax. On the contrary, right now, when a woman is cooking for him, washing, cleaning, the young man should support her in every possible way, give thanks and surprise. You can start by regularly helping your loved one with household chores.

    A good option would be to purchase a gift certificate in her favorite store, a subscription to a solarium, a beauty salon, and a massage center. She should feel not only a housewife, but also a welcome girl.

      To the day of all lovers

    Valentine's Day is a romantic holiday, so you should refrain from presenting cosmetics, household appliances and other similar presents on this day. It can be a beautiful animal molded from polymer clay or a heart, a bouquet of sweets and paper. You can try to make origami from newspapers or even banknotes. Actual will be flowers, soft toys, jewelry, sweets in a box.

    A gift should talk about the feelings of a young man. An ideal option would be to make such a surprise with your own hands. To do this, you can prepare a beautiful glass container. It is necessary to put 100 pieces of paper in it, on which are written the reasons why a young man loves his girlfriend.

      On March 8

    On this day, it is customary to present practical gifts that will be useful to a woman in everyday life in order to facilitate her work. It can be a washing machine, microwave, multicooker. Presentations in the form of expensive perfume, cream, cosmetics will become useful. Do not be shy to ask directly about the gift that the girl would like to receive.

    You can supplement the present with a thing prepared by yourself, for example, a bouquet of sweets.   To do it, you need the following:

    • Chintz fabric in different colors in red and pink colors.
    • Felt is dark green.
    • Wire (cross section 1-2 mm).
    • Candies in the shape of a pyramid or rectangle.
    • Skewers.
    • Decorative tape made of paper on a glue basis.

    Chintz fabric is cut into small squares measuring 10x10 cm. Sweets are wrapped in calico squares.


    A skewer is inserted under the candy, but the sweetness is not pierced by it. The skewer is wrapped with the corners of a square cloth and wrapped tightly with duct tape.

    Birthday is a special holiday when you need to try hard. It should be borne in mind that if a big celebration is planned, then the festival will be attended by parents, relatives, friends, colleagues. Therefore, in this case, you must give something expensive. If a young man has good relations with his girlfriend’s family, then you can agree in advance on who will give what. Close people can tell what exactly the girl expects as a gift from her young man.

    No matter how expensive the present, nothing will melt ice like a cooked surprise yourself. For example, a paper cake. It is enough to stock up with multi-colored thick cardboard, scissors and a manufacturing scheme. Inside the “dessert” you can put your favorite birthday sweets and notes with wishes, congratulations and compliments.


    You can also make an album with photos in chronological order of development of the relationship of a couple in love. A good option would be a photo collage with the most vivid pictures of lovers.

    And a little about secrets ...

    I was fascinated by my husband, and he did not take his eyes off his mistress. He acted like a moron in love ...

    Hello friends. We all know that women are flowers in the lives of men. Without cute, gentle women, our life would be gray and dull. Who would take care of us then, who would create the warmth and comfort of a home for us, who would share with us all the joys and sorrows of life. That's right, women need to be loved, cherished and given them the necessary signs of attention.

    I made a comparison of women with flowers not by chance. Just as flowers love warmth, care and regular watering, so women need care, protection, confidence in their man. And what can strengthen that same confidence in a woman, no matter how a man displays his feelings? The brighter, stronger, more emotional and regular you will show your soul mate that you love her, the stronger and more harmonious your relationship will be.

    Are you already in love and want to pluck a star from the sky for your beloved? Around the clock you are tormented by the question of how to surprise a girl, how to turn her life into a fairy tale, how to clearly express your feelings and make it beloved that you love her?

    Indeed, many men are thinking about how to surprise their girlfriend, because for everyone this means something of their own, deeply personal. One wants to win his chosen one, the other just wants to make a nice gift for his soul mate on a memorable date, holiday (Valentine's Day - February 14, birthday, etc.), the third has the intention to make, open his soul and heart. Agree, it is very important to carefully consider the options for your surprise, to make it truly romantic, beautifully designed, and most importantly, original and unexpected.

    How can you surprise your beloved so that this event becomes the most striking and unforgettable event in her life? Today I will tell you about some possible options for your surprise.

    Holiday is a great occasion to surprise your girlfriend

    Holidays are present in the life of every person. These bright events brighten up our life, making it not as routine and gray as weekdays. We are looking forward to the next holiday, excitedly counting the days on the calendar, scrolling through our head various options for celebrations, choosing gifts that are dear to us, or waiting for them to be given to us.

    The holiday for lovers is doubly exciting. The first celebrations held together are remembered for the rest of my life, giving a sea of \u200b\u200bpositive emotions and bright memories.

    However, life does not stand still. Alas, we cannot forever remain in the time of our happiness and prosperity. Some holidays are replaced by others, gifts and celebrations no longer give the same emotions, smiles fade, and the words often become false. Therefore, do not miss the moment to make pleasant your beloved girl now. The best reward for you will be her eyes, glowing with happiness, her sincere laugh, her kisses and hugs.

    On Valentine's Day, it is customary to give gifts to your soul mates. And many men believe that without money in your pocket you cannot surprise your passion. They are deeply mistaken. After all, the main thing is your attention, care and sincere love. You can buy anything for money, but the manifestation of real feelings and imagination is much more valuable.

    Follow these tips to make your chosen one fall in love with you even more:

    • Sing a serenade for your girlfriend under the window of her house. If in doubt about your musical abilities, use the phonogram of her favorite song. You can rest assured that she will appreciate your courageous and romantic act.
    • Write a declaration of love on the pavement under her window. Most importantly, do not mix up the windows. If you think this is too commonplace, you are mistaken. Surely many representatives of the beautiful half of humanity dream, waking up early in the morning, to see their name on the pavement and these treasured words. You did not hesitate to tell everyone about them, which means you have serious intentions.
    • Hand her a bunch of many heart-shaped balloons when they meet.
    • Congratulate your beloved on Valentine's Day by calling the radio station she listens to.
    • Create a video from your joint photos in a special video editor, add nice words and inscriptions to it.
    • On February 14, it is customary for loved ones to give valentines. In stores you can find a huge number of them, but they are all the same type. The same type of picture, commonplace words. Therefore, it will be much better if you make a card with your own hands, putting all your love and tenderness into it. If you are not an artist, do not worry, the main thing is to be sincere and from the heart.
    • You can make a list of reasons why you love your chosen one, write in beautiful handwriting and hand it to her. Positive emotions are guaranteed.
    • Dedicate a poem to your girlfriend. Of course, no one forces you to be the second Pushkin, but then again, most importantly, sincerity and your love. In this case, any even the simplest lines will sound like the best work of art.
    • Arrange your beautiful romantic candlelight dinner, which will smoothly turn into a night full of tenderness and passion.

    The above tips can be used if you do not know how to surprise your beloved girl on your birthday, but in this case it would be better if such surprises become a pleasant addition to the main gift. And excellent and non-banal gifts will be:

    • A trip together to another city, where you can enjoy the moments spent with each other, and see a lot of new and interesting;
    • Portrait of your girl, painted by an experienced artist. If you draw well yourself, you can create it yourself. It will be doubly pleasant;
    • Invite your chosen one to the theater if she is fond of theatrical art, to an exhibition, or to a movie at the premiere of a sensational film;
    • Present a soft toy. Many young ladies are crazy about soft bears, bunnies and other animals. Of course, men believe that this is an open dust collector, but no matter what you do to please the lady of the heart;
    • If a girl has long dreamed of a cat, dog or other pet, but does not dare to start an ego, this is a great gift idea. It will only be better if you secretly know in advance whether your chosen one is ready to meet a pet;
    • “The best friends of girls are diamonds” is sung in one well-known song. Not every man has money to shower his beloved with diamonds, but your chosen one will undoubtedly be glad of a beautiful decoration.
    • Do not forget about the bouquet of flowers, as a mandatory addition to the gift.

    As you can see, there are a lot of options. You yourself can come up with additional ones if you know the character of the girl, her tastes and preferences quite well. The main thing is to carefully monitor her and notice her dreams and desires. After all, most of them you can perform on a holiday.

    Closing the topic of the holidays, it is worth advising the guys what should not be done and what gifts should not be given for a special occasion:

    1. Do not ask your passion what gift she wants to receive, let it be a surprise, the girls love pleasant surprises;
    2. Do not postpone the purchase and thinking over the surprise to the last moment, as there may not be any good ideas or the right product in the store, think over everything in advance;
    3. Do not give the girl makeup, it’s better to present her a gift card so that she herself can choose exactly those beauty products that she needs.
    4. If you decide to present a piece of clothing, it is unlikely that you will be able to surprise a chosen one, so you should not buy it yourself (do not guess with size, style, color, etc.), it is better to choose it together.
    5. Do not tell in advance about your plans, keep the intrigue.

    Date cooked surprise

    You need to surprise a girl not only on holiday dates; do something original and romantic on every date. Here are some ideas:

    • Take her to some beautiful place where she has never been. It can be a picturesque park, alley, river, a cozy cafe;
    • Give small but nice presents. It may be a heart-shaped chocolate, a small soft toy, a decoration, a book or something else that she will like;
    • Give her flowers at a meeting just for no reason;
    • During a walk, unexpectedly grab the chosen one in your arms, circle her in the air. Girls really like this, so you show her that you are strong and are ready to protect her in any situation.
    • Give her compliments.

    We surprise the girl in VK

    In the modern world, relationships often start on the Internet at a distance, so guys are increasingly thinking about how to surprise the one that they liked by correspondence in contact. Use the tips:

    • Secret admirer. Create a page that is completely dedicated to your passion. Her photos, poems about her, romantic songs, videos, declarations of love and much more, for which you have enough imagination.
    • Clairvoyant. Start the conversation by knowing her character or other details from life. In fact, no extrasensory abilities are needed. Just carefully look at the page in contact or ask about the girl from her friends or acquaintances.
    • Send a declaration of love for your chosen one in several languages.
    • If your relationship becomes serious, change your marital status and show everyone that you are in love. This will undoubtedly please your girlfriend.
    • Gift. Give a gift in contact. There are a lot of them. For example, in the morning you can give a virtual engagement ring, but in the evening ... the present.
    • Collage. Make a collage of your shared photos and place on her wall.
    • Put the status of VK, which applies only to the two of you.

    I hope that following the above tips, you will be able to present many pleasant surprises to your girlfriend, and your relationship will become even more harmonious and happy.

    Girls really appreciate in guys their ability to surprise. But it’s one thing when a guy is constantly next to his beloved and makes her some surprises, and it’s quite another if the couple is experiencing a temporary separation connected with someone’s departure. To keep the brand of the best man in the world, you need to know how to surprise a girl at a distance so that she can feel your love, even while in another city or country.

    Testing the senses by distance

    Distance can strengthen feelings. It is known that a person begins to understand how close he is to him only when he has not seen them for a long time. The same thing in the relationship between a guy and a girl: if you are constantly together, then sooner or later you begin to get tired of each other. And when one of the couple leaves for another city, people begin to get bored, suffer from the inability to see each other and eventually realize that they are no longer ready to leave.

    Surprise girl

    In order to somehow brighten up the period of separation, you need to constantly remind yourself. The girl is a sweet, guided being; she should not make broad gestures. With her enough daily calls and gentle SMS. But the guy may well come up with something extraordinary, so as not to let his girlfriend forget about herself, even when she is thousands of kilometers from him.

    Courier delivery

    Previously, to send greetings, letters or gifts, you had to send ambassadors to another city. Then there was a telephone connection, and it became possible for two people to communicate from different cities. Today it has developed to such an extent that you can even see a person, while being anywhere in the world. And in order to arrange a surprise, it is enough to contact a specialized company that deals with this.

    What should you do if your girlfriend is in another city, and you want to give her a bouquet?

    1. On social networks or on the Internet search engine, find a flower delivery company;
    2. Communicate personally with the manager or head of the company;
    3. Explain the situation: that you are in another city, are interested in the opportunity to choose a bouquet from a photograph, agree on payment (card, electronic money, mail order);
    4. Make a payment and wait for a joyful SMS from your beloved, who wonders how you were able to give her flowers, being thousands of kilometers away.

    In addition to colors, you can convey any surprises:

    • Stuffed Toys;
    • Sweets;
    • Dinner from a restaurant, etc.

    There is a certain risk in such a surprise. The company may receive money and not fulfill its obligations, because, in fact, the contract you had was oral. One can only hope that you come across a bona fide company. In extreme cases, you can leave a negative review on the site.

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    If the business trip (yours or the girls) is long-term, then after a few days the correspondence and calls will no longer bring positive emotions. It will turn into a routine.

    You can tell a girl about your feelings with a loud declaration of love. The definition “loud” means that recognition is recognized not only by her, but also by other people.

    How can this be done, and even at a distance.

    Again, there is the opportunity to contact a special company. This time it will be a company engaged in the design of advertising banners. They do not care what will be written on the poster. The main thing is that it is paid. We proceed as follows:

    1. We come up with a poster design. You can do this in your city. If you own layout programs, you can do it all yourself, otherwise the company can draw up a poster.
    2. In the city where the girl is located, we are looking for a company engaged in advertising on banners, on buses, on transport, etc. The main thing is that the poster should be visible to a large number of people.
    3. We pay for the order with a card.

    Unexpected surprise

    Two of the above methods were quite expensive. But you can surprise a girl without money. You should prepare a little surprise for her in advance by placing it in a place where the girl does not look often. If you leave, but the girl remains, it is easier to do this: a surprise can be hidden in her apartment:

    • In a vase or glass standing in the sideboard;
    • Under the carpet (in case this is a note);
    • On the mezzanine;
    • Deep in the closet, etc.

    That is, it should be any inaccessible place.

    If the girl leaves, and you do not have the opportunity to housekeeping in her temporary housing in another city, then the surprise is thrown into the luggage: in the pocket of sweatshirts or jeans; in the lining of the jacket; in a cosmetic bag, etc. If the girl does not find the surprise herself, then you can call and tell her. As a surprise, you can use a note, a postcard, a small decoration or craft.

    Here I am

    An option for the most impatient guys who do not want to put up with separation: you can just come to your beloved. The girl will undoubtedly be pleasantly surprised that you are ready to follow her even to the ends of the world, forgetting about your affairs. But if you carefully plan your visit without informing your lover about it, it will be doubly surprising.

    1. You can quietly come to the city where the girl temporarily lives, settle nearby and arrange her a day of surprises. At the same time, she should understand that you are doing this, and not some fan of her, but remain at a loss as to how this can be. For example: drop a note in her mailbox (so that she recognizes the handwriting), which says that only the two of you know. Come to her work or college and pass on a message in words. At the same time, try to look so that you can be accurately described (you can wear the clothes in which the girl is used to seeing you).
    2. Try to become a phantom. A girl should think that you are imagining her. Put on a baseball cap, dark glasses, a hood and appear in the field of view of the girl: go around the corner, and then hide again; show up in the crowd and then mix with it; stand on the road near the traffic light, near which her bus stops, etc.
    3. Just pop up unexpectedly. This can happen at any time and in any place: collide with her in the subway, ask for a bus transfer, ask her for the time as if you were a casual passer-by. Remember: the more banal the situation, the more surprising the meeting will be. It would be nice if someone captured this moment on camera.

    Carrying out all the above actions, remember that a girl can call you at any time to calm her bewilderment. Be prepared for her inquiries. You can reveal yourself and embrace the girl in your arms at any time, but the more you pull him away, the more touching and emotional the meeting will turn out.

    Perhaps you can get some more ideas from this video:

    Temporary separation is not a reason to break off relations. It’s just a test of couples for strength, for feelings. If they are real, then both sides will do everything to maximally brighten up the period of separation for each other, and the main steps should be taken by the man. He is stronger emotionally and is ready to do things for his beloved. Surprise girls, surprises for her, extraordinary acts, the constant maintenance of feelings in good shape - these are standard actions of a real man.

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